Thanks But Just Leave Me Alone

Dear Good Intentions but Bad Approach,

When I am tired of myself, my lousy situation and predicament, it doesn't help to remind of it to me again. And if you must, you really don't need to repeat it 3 times within a 5mins conversation.

Let me give you an example. Take for instance, someone that eats for comfort when depressed. And when that someone finally look up in the mirror and find herself fat she gets more depressed and hence eat more. All the while people with good intentions tells her she is fat and depresses her more and leads to more eating and the cycle continues. Finally one day she said to herself that she had enough and tries to get her act together. And while trying to get better, those people with good intentions tries to encourage her by reminding her how fat and ugly she was just in case she forgot. I classify these people as blamers because all they could think of is blaming the girl for not taking care of herself. At this point I just want to say to blamers thanks a lot but you just freaking makes the girl want to eat more now. End of story.